What do you do in your spare time?
Sycohearted
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Post by Sycohearted on Mar 29, 2016 18:22:22 GMT
Anyone?
Music, coffee, crackers and research?...
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⸗April⸗
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Post by ⸗April⸗ on Mar 29, 2016 19:19:12 GMT
Lately, what I've been doing in my spare time is a lot of reading and writing down quotes/scenes that I like. From three different book series: A Song of Ice and Fire, The Dresden Files and Harry Potter. It also is kind of inspiring me to try and get more into writing, so I've been kinda working on an ongoing novel as well. (been writing it for the past 10+ years or so, off and on) I also play an MMORPG on my computer, focused on Star Wars. Or watch TV shows that I've recorded because the boyfriend isn't interested in them. : And also cycling, I'm trying to do more of that.
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Sycohearted
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Post by Sycohearted on Mar 29, 2016 19:27:19 GMT
Lately, what I've been doing in my spare time is a lot of reading and writing down quotes/scenes that I like. From three different book series: A Song of Ice and Fire, The Dresden Files and Harry Potter. It also is kind of inspiring me to try and get more into writing, so I've been kinda working on an ongoing novel as well. (been writing it for the past 10+ years or so, off and on) I also play an MMORPG on my computer, focused on Star Wars. Or watch TV shows that I've recorded because the boyfriend isn't interested in them. : And also cycling, I'm trying to do more of that. That first bit sounds so relaxing...I write a lot of care sheets and research articles in my spare time. I've started prepping them to share on here~ Ahhh, games are nice. I enjoy Don't Starve, Diablo, Minecraft and Sims3 if I'm feeling very bored.
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Post by carolbaby on Mar 30, 2016 5:59:39 GMT
I draw, play with my pets, go out into nature, watch TV (mostly MLP((My Little Pony, that TV show that so many older men love x3)) and Doctor Who) or play video games. I have a ton of spare time, but that's what happens when you're homeschooled
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Post by amityvillearia on Mar 30, 2016 13:59:30 GMT
I listen to music,talk online with two of pretty much my only friends aka carolbaby and anson,play with my psycho dog,come up with cage themes,plot to have a massive hamster cage,lots of pet things!But also dealing with distance in a relationship,mentally designing collars,being extremely catlike,etc.The last two would seem a bit more normal if everyone actually knew I was into pet play but oh well.Then again some people do sadly jump to conclusions on things they just don't understand
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Post by Sycohearted on Mar 30, 2016 17:03:00 GMT
I draw, play with my pets, go out into nature, watch TV (mostly MLP((My Little Pony, that TV show that so many older men love x3)) and Doctor Who) or play video games. I have a ton of spare time, but that's what happens when you're homeschooled I love to draw! And I love nature....In winter....Wasps can fuck off lol. Hahaha! Yes, My Fiance is indeed an older man and we watch it together. It's an okay show. What kind of video games are you into? Awww I'm against homeschooling for so many reasons....Sorry you gotta go through that.
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Post by Sycohearted on Mar 30, 2016 17:04:46 GMT
I listen to music,talk online with two of pretty much my only friends aka carolbaby and anson,play with my psycho dog,come up with cage themes,plot to have a massive hamster cage,lots of pet things!But also dealing with distance in a relationship,mentally designing collars,being extremely catlike,etc.The last two would seem a bit more normal if everyone actually knew I was into pet play but oh well.Then again some people do sadly jump to conclusions on things they just don't understand You plot and plan a lot, which is identical to me. Always writing (self-benefit) research papers, care sheets, wish lists for my pets and cost estimates. It really is an "entertaining" boredom breaker. Hmm...I have never met someone who is into pet-play. How far do you take your hobby in that sense? I see you like to design collars and possibly wear them, but how far does it go for you?
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Post by amityvillearia on Mar 30, 2016 17:25:13 GMT
I listen to music,talk online with two of pretty much my only friends aka carolbaby and anson,play with my psycho dog,come up with cage themes,plot to have a massive hamster cage,lots of pet things!But also dealing with distance in a relationship,mentally designing collars,being extremely catlike,etc.The last two would seem a bit more normal if everyone actually knew I was into pet play but oh well.Then again some people do sadly jump to conclusions on things they just don't understand You plot and plan a lot, which is identical to me. Always writing (self-benefit) research papers, care sheets, wish lists for my pets and cost estimates. It really is an "entertaining" boredom breaker. Hmm...I have never met someone who is into pet-play. How far do you take your hobby in that sense? I see you like to design collars and possibly wear them, but how far does it go for you? Plotting is a very fun thing!I constantly plan out the costs and things for future pets and little ways to make them cheaper or easier or interesting ways to get different things for my pets. For me at least it really is a massive part of my life.It's relationship related,something I do in my spare times,and even at the strangest moments I could be in the mental head space of a kitten.Playing with cat toys,just stretching like a cat,meowing,pawing at things,anything to help the head space work more!I wear ears in public as well as relatively inconspicuous collars quite often and it honestly has helped so much with my self confidence. I have a master,and while there are so many terms for that I don't have a set term that I really prefer.It is extremely serious though to the point where collaring,which is essentially the bdsm equivalent of marriage,is under consideration.It's going to take at least a few years though,because of distance problems and just not wanting to jump into such a serious decision.My parents don't really know what it is,but they do know about ears and stuff and they really don't seem to care too much but my dad did think the ears were odd at first which is entirely understandable.Side note:bdsm in itself is not strictly sexual however it does somewhat have sexual tendencies so someone has to be very careful.This is precisely what safe words and limits are for guys!And 50 Shades of Grey is definitely not real bdsm due to the forceful nature. I guess one could say it's pretty much a life long passion that as far as I can tell will not be ending.It's getting even more acceptable and common to wear at least ears in public,and if you're alternative to begin with or the collars just seem to match your clothes it really doesn't draw too much attention. I've never really gotten much of a reaction in public though,but I have heard of some awful stories from others who didn't get the best experience. It's like anything different though,people will definitely judge and assume things and be confused because they just don't always understand.
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Post by Sycohearted on Mar 30, 2016 17:45:08 GMT
You plot and plan a lot, which is identical to me. Always writing (self-benefit) research papers, care sheets, wish lists for my pets and cost estimates. It really is an "entertaining" boredom breaker. Hmm...I have never met someone who is into pet-play. How far do you take your hobby in that sense? I see you like to design collars and possibly wear them, but how far does it go for you? Plotting is a very fun thing!I constantly plan out the costs and things for future pets and little ways to make them cheaper or easier or interesting ways to get different things for my pets. For me at least it really is a massive part of my life.It's relationship related,something I do in my spare times,and even at the strangest moments I could be in the mental head space of a kitten.Playing with cat toys,just stretching like a cat,meowing,pawing at things,anything to help the head space work more!I wear ears in public as well as relatively inconspicuous collars quite often and it honestly has helped so much with my self confidence. I have a master,and while there are so many terms for that I don't have a set term that I really prefer.It is extremely serious though to the point where collaring,which is essentially the bdsm equivalent of marriage,is under consideration.It's going to take at least a few years though,because of distance problems and just not wanting to jump into such a serious decision.My parents don't really know what it is,but they do know about ears and stuff and they really don't seem to care too much but my dad did think the ears were odd at first which is entirely understandable.Side note:bdsm in itself is not strictly sexual however it does somewhat have sexual tendencies so someone has to be very careful.This is precisely what safe words and limits are for guys!And 50 Shades of Grey is definitely not real bdsm due to the forceful nature. I guess one could say it's pretty much a life long passion that as far as I can tell will not be ending.It's getting even more acceptable and common to wear at least ears in public,and if you're alternative to begin with or the collars just seem to match your clothes it really doesn't draw too much attention. I've never really gotten much of a reaction in public though,but I have heard of some awful stories from others who didn't get the best experience. It's like anything different though,people will definitely judge and assume things and be confused because they just don't always understand. As long as it makes you happy, that's all that matters. I seriously look down upon people who judge others for what they do in their spare time or a life choice they make. No one is normal. There is no such thing as normal. That person who looks at you oddly or makes fun of you for being a cat, probably has a "fucked up" fetish. My literal outlook is, if it's not hurting themselves or other people, then there is no reason to judge them. And people can take that whatever way they want to. Other's have different definitions of "hurt" or "hurting" someone so it really does vary person to person. I've got a whole personal closet of secrets and things only 2-3 people in my life know. Some may find it normal, weird, fucked up or they don't care. But it makes me happy. Tis' all that really does matter in the end. One of the most unpopular lifestyles I have is being a furry. And what I mean by unpopular is people like to read media and other close-minded articles and immediately jump to stereotype. I've gotten all the questions that a lot of furries just roll their eyes to...It get's tiring and annoying lol.
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Post by amityvillearia on Mar 30, 2016 18:35:17 GMT
If everyone thought the same it would be great and the world would be incredible,but of course people don't take the time to actually research things and understand that they're not horrible.
I've had people say that I'm against equal rights and irrelevant things and that I'm into bestiality and so much nonsense that at this point it just makes me laugh.At the end of the day though anyone will judge you and talk shit about you over nonsense even within these small communities.You have elitists and idiots everywhere,sadly.You notice it within the gothic subculture,the alternative subcultures and all throughout bdsm and just everywhere.
I'm extremely happy as I am and I'm more confident than I would ever be,but people could be just as happy if they'd pull their heads out their asses and do whatever they wanted too!
I find there is no excuse for being close-minded but sadly it's just too easy to see one side of things or one perspective of things and then suddenly all you see is that particular viewpoint.I hate when people are so negative about furries and anyone different because people who are so incredibly different tend to be the nicest most open minded people out there and we need more people like that.
I've gotten a lot of stupid questions,but I've heard the stupidest ones and they don't even have to be about pet play.I've gotten stupid ddlg questions and remarks and people just being stupid,and there are very popular ones for any alternative lifestyle out there.People saying that someone has daddy issues,people saying that ddlg is fucked up and that it's incest,people saying pet play is bestiality,people thinking all these stupid things really.
Of course you have the controversial teens going around saying they're into pet play but they aren't into bdsm. I hear about that one all the time and it always makes me facepalm.
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